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How To Get What You Want Out Of Life

People are always wanting the quick fix to feel better, to know how to feel about their life the way they have always fantasized. We are constantly taking on the new fad, or ideas in hopes that we will finally have what we want. You can take all the steps that you want, you can try and build your new reality with all determination you have. However, if you want to see real, deep inner change, you work with the mind. And your quick fix? Creating unconditional love for your life.

Think about it, we are all running around picturing a better future, hurting over a painful past. Each day there is something we wish were different, something we see play out in our reality and makes us feel disappointed that it is not the way we want it to be. There could be hundreds of things you think about like this during your day. But you hardly see a different future as a real possibility for yourself, it seems like too much work, it is too different from where you are and don’t even get me started on how much you have tried and failed in the past, am I right?

The reason people really struggle to make changes and see the possibility of changes in their life is because they are operating from their past and associating their life to everything that has happened from the past. This stops you from being able to respond differently to the idea of your future working out. The way people start to create a different future for themselves is they have to look at their current reality from an objective perspective to be able to separate themselves from their current thinking and feeling. Because right now, everything you think and feel is through the lens of your past and not through the lens of possibility in your future.

So, let's break this down. First of all, I want you to understand, that how you think and feel about your life is not set in stone and is coming from your current conditioning. I want you to understand that if you want to change your current reality to something different, you need to change your current personality., The personality you are right now is the personality of your reality right now. Building towards a new future is about letting go of the traits and patterns of thinking that no longer serve you.

When you are moving through the motions of your life always associating your current reality to what it has been in the past, who you have been in the past, you are living from the energy of your past and will continue to recreate the same situation. From the moment you wake up you remind yourself of all of your problems through thinking. Then you attach a feeling and emotion to that problem and give yourself plenty of reason to think poorly of yourself. You reflect on all of the times you have failed at changing, get that internal dialog running of how much of a disaster of a person you are, and is it any wonder you do not have the confidence and drive to make some real changes?

What is the fastest personality shift you can make, to make anything seem possible and bring you much, much closer to achieving your goals? The personality that has unconditional love for their life. When you have reasons connected to why you feel the way you do, those things can come and go and result in you in an up and down whirlwind of emotions. Think about how many things you think about daily that you tell yourself “when that is different, then I will be happy”. How is that working out for you? Do you need to be over the moon about life all of the time? No, of course not, you are human and humans have an array of emotions. But if you can build the ability to detach from things having to be a certain way for you to be happy and to choose to generate emotions like gratitude despite things, you have a key secret to shifting your world.

Get yourself to the point where you are so happy with life, so grateful for what you have around you, that you could not care less about the thing that once bothered you. This is the point where things actually start to shift because you start seeing life from such a different perspective that a whole new world opens up to you. The problem existed for that past personality but you have now changed how you think, feel, and act, that those problems are no longer an issue for you. As Dr Joe, Dispenza says, “when you believe in possibilities, you believe in yourself“ and “if you are not being defined by a vision of the future, then all you are left with is the memories of the past. And you will be predictable in your life”. When you are believing in yourself, you create the tools and resources in your life to capture the life that you want. The reason we desire anything is because we think it will make us happier. If you can create the emotions of being grateful and happy before you have what you want, you can become unstoppable in building your dream life.

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